Chapter 36

On the topic of self-improvement, many times the way you see a problem is itself the problem. Much good can be said of the intrinsic value in a thorough paradigm shift, which when properly consummated can produce an initiation of vigorous self-reformation. One very basic and important shift process is from dependence (depending on others to get what you want) to independence (depending on yourself to get what you want) to interdependence (depending on God and one another to get what everyone wants).

A dependence problem is usually a personal maturity issue and has little to do with circumstances (other than ones we create or exaggerate). Though a step up, independent thinking alone is not suited to interdependent reality. I firmly believe you can create an empowering center of correct maps from high quality values which enables you to resolve problems, capitalize on opportunities, and amalgamate spiritual principles into an upward spiral of growth. Your unique contribution capacity in self-development depends on your level of enthusiastic, passionate change, and this constant movement must become habitual. An advantage in the habit of being proactive is that we acknowledge our behavior is a byproduct of our decisions and values, and we thus refuse to empower those things to control us which are harmful. We must also realize that reactive people are too easily affected by their environment.

Here are some great questions to reflect on: How can you live in greater harmony with the Law of Human Nature? How do you attain a higher degree of positive and useful life results? Do you constantly tell people what you think, rather than listen to them? Do you truly have the skills to listen? How is your mind working, can you describe your current mental state? Are you quick and alert or indolent and lifeless? Do you recklessly attempt to recruit others into your way of thinking despite its known ineffectiveness? Though change is very hard to accept emotionally, and not very endearing, it is necessary for growth. So, all things considered, here is a great life lesson: Be value-driven.